#LetsTalkFertility: Why Do Women In India Continue To Be Shamed For Dealing With Infertility?

#LetsTalkFertility: Why Do Women In India Continue To Be Shamed For Dealing With Infertility?

Infertility is painfully enough, one of the biggest problems that our nation is facing at the moment and more than half of these cases seem to be due to a lack of sperm count. Alas, this is a condition that ends up being more than just stressful for women in India. It affects their marital lives as well as changes the viewpoint a partner has towards their other half.

Furthermore, we end up treating these women like they don’t have emotions and instead, their own families end up changing the way they see them too. This makes them feel like they’re a burden on their own loved ones. On top of all this, society’s viewpoint in regard to them changes entirely. Why is infertility treated like a woman’s issue when it happens to people of every gender?

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How Does Infertility Affect The Way Society Views Women?

In Indian society, it is still believed that one of the most essential roles that women play in a relationship is reproduction. So, when this reproductive goal is hindered due to infertility, society ends up viewing women in a different light. It’s as if they believe that these women have somehow failed in life and they are viewed with an additional layer of judgement and stigma.

These women are mocked, trolled and mistreated for dealing with something that is so natural and common. This can happen with anyone and yet, the women who deal with it, are treated like wasted goods. It’s as if these women are seen as pieces of land. Unless they are fertile, their market value just seems to drop. People forget that these women are humans and that their emotions matter. People forget the fact that this news crashes their dreams of being mothers too and their emotions aren’t given any weightage.

In rural areas today, women who are infertile tend to be extremely vulnerable to domestic violence. These women are mistreated and they face scrutiny from their own families along with the families of their husbands without even finding out the reason behind the couple’s inability to reproduce. There have been unfortunate cases of men in villages getting remarried just because their ‘first wives’ cannot reproduce to expand their family line. I mean, what kind of solution is that to a problem that can be solved with scientific and medical aid as well.

With #LetsTalkFertility trending on Twitter lately, it’s essential to ask ourselves why this painful and unfair prejudice still exists? Why are women treated like baby-producing machines, without regard for their lives and emotions? How the hell does this make sense? We forget the pain women go through while dealing with infertility. For far too long, women have been treated like the face of infertility.

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Why Should Infertility Limit Your Dreams To Be A Parent?

With #LetsTalkFertility trending on Twitter lately, people have been talking about the stigma that surrounds reproduction through other mediums apart from naturally being able to reproduce. It’s about time that we shed this layer of stigma and give infertile couples a chance to become parents and experience the joy of starting a family if they want to do so.

Clinics and doctors are tying up with the Integrated Health & Wellbeing Council India and are talking about various alternate forms of being able to reproduce, that can make our lives as well as the process of reproduction easier for couples dealing with infertility. People are speaking about the issue and the problems that surround it, as a whole.

Let’s vouch to stop mistreating women for dealing with infertility. Remember, they aren’t the flagbearers of infertility and it’s important to get tested as a couple and support each other through the fight against infertility. It can be strenuous, stressful and emotionally, physically as well as financially draining but, it can be worth it.

The government should also work towards making the process more commonly available so it’s more common and affordable for couples everywhere.  Also, if a woman or couple you know chooses to not reproduce, remember the fact that it’s their choice and stops imposing treatment forms on them. It’s time we change the way we deal with infertility as a whole.

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