On ‘KWK’, Shahid Kapoor Talked About His Roleplaying Kink. Here’s How It Helps Spice Things Up In The Bedroom
The best thing about the Koffee With Karan couch is the fact that a lot of great gossip and personal deets are spilt on it. Something similar happened in the last episode when Kiara Advani and Shahid Kapoor took the Koffee With Karan couch. When Karan prompted Shahid to talk about his sex life, he decided to spill the kinky beans and spoke about how he has experimented with roleplaying in bed.
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I genuinely think this is an amazing thing because when people like Shahid Kapoor speak openly about experimenting with kinks, it somehow de-stigmatises kinks and fetishes as a whole. This is a great thing because it gives room for people to actually ‘come out’ of the kinky closets, they get to own up to their needs and desires, without feeling ashamed about having them. I mean, we all have some desires, right? Communicating about it always helps big time.
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So, What Is Roleplaying?
Roleplaying is a kink where people take on new avatars and personas in the bedroom while engaging in sexual activity. You enter the fantasy world and get to do something you’ve always wanted. Have you always had a thing for teachers, nurses or doctors? Implement it in the play.
This can literally be as spicy and adventurous as it sounds, depending on how deep you wish to go with your roles. Some people go all in with different outfits and change their accents while they speak while the others include power exchange and sexual experimentation in the mix.
On the other hand, some people choose to hit the next level by including a pre-decided mutual location as well. They set up dates at different restaurants and then meet up as their ‘made up’ personas, to add a layer of kinky fun. (Yes, it’s like Phil and Claire meeting up as Clive Bixby and Julianna). Roleplaying can be a very fun way to add some fun when it comes to the bedroom which is experimenting with it can be a brilliant way to make things hot and spicy.
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How Can Roleplaying Help In The Bedroom?
1. Go Beyond The Boring
Boring sex can literally be worse than bad sex. This makes sex seem like a mundane chore that you have to add to your to-do list. Roleplaying has the power to change that and bring ‘the sexy back to your bedroom. Add any kinks you want to experiment with, to the quotient. It’s time to have some fun.
2. Breaking The Monotony
Roleplaying can really help couples who wish to shatter the monotony of the bedroom and bring in a breath of fresh air, with new characters. Are you stuck with the same 5 poses every time? Maybe bring in some kinky characters who love to experiment with S&M and Food. Let your kinks mix and merge!
3. Discover New Things About Yourself
Roleplaying actually helps you discover a lot of new things about yourself. Is your alter-persona more snazzy? Do they love the added layer of secrecy? Are they more sparkly, sneaky and sexy? Do they love BDSM? Are they submissive? These are all new things you get to know about yourself!
4. Bringing Back The Zing
Roleplaying is a great way to add some sparkle back to your relationship because it changed you as an individual. It can help you gain more confidence and having tried and aced at something new, is always a great feeling. It can also add some spark to your personality and character, as a whole.
5. Bid The ‘Cheating Fears’ Goodbye
Roleplaying can actually help people with all their cheating fantasies. People usually cheat when they feel stuck in a relationship and Roleplaying already lets you both experiment with non-monogamy thereby, helping you let go of the ‘feeling stuck’ and say hello to sexy.
But, always remember that every type of kinky experimentation begins with communication, talk to your partner beforehand and discuss everything including their kinks and preferred roles. So, let’s bring in some roleplaying fun to your spice up your sex life and get some fresh sparkle and shine into your relationship. What are you even waiting for? Experiment away!
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