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Twitter Thread Pointing Out The Green Flags In A Relationship Is The Best Advice You’ll Read In Time For Valentine’s Day

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Tell me if you agree with me – whenever we talk about relationships or partners we somehow end up discussing what red flags we need to look out for, but we hardly ever talk about green flags that we should actively look for. I personally believe that looking for green flags in a relationship/partner is as important as pointing out the red ones. Why? Because it allows for the trust to build and grow as well as gives a sense of security. 

Now, if you’re wondering what green flags I’m talking about… well, let me present to you a Twitter thread that I came across. A user by the name of Omar Bazza recently tweeted a series of tweets that talks about what are the green flags in a relationship that make it successful and healthy.

To begin with, the user says that communication is the main ingredient and the main green flag in any relationship. If we feel safe opening up to them then it opens up doors for many more things like trust, honesty, vulnerability etc. 

In another tweet, the user adds how communication is something that can be worked on. How it is a dynamic aspect of a relationship and can be moulded to fit the relationship.

Another green flag according to the user is respecting boundaries. (This one I can vouch for). In the tweet, the user mentions how when your partner doesn’t pressurise you or guilt trips you into doing something shows how much they respect you and your needs.

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Being in agreement about the future is a crucial green flag. It is best to agree upon the big life goals early in life so both of y’all know where y’all stand and what the other person wants from their future.

I have always believed that relationships are about give and take. And even in the Twitter thread, the user talks about a balanced give and take relationship. After all, any relationship doesn’t last for long when there is only one person putting in most of the effort now, can it?

When people get into a relationship, some of them lose their own individuality. They forget that they also have a life of their own. One of the green flags the user talks about is to be with a person who has their own life out of a relationship. Because a relationship should add more to you and your life, not become your life.

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Having the approval of your friends is definitely a green flag. And I agree with the user because I also believe that they are not blinded by their feelings and so have a very practical perception of your relationship. 

The Twitter user’s last but definitely important green flag is not getting into a relationship just because you feel alone, lonely, or have a void you want to fill. And this green flag speaks for itself. 

With Valentine’s Day being just around the corner, I believe that this thread about green flags was necessary. Especially nowadays when people are changing relationships as often as they change their clothes. 

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