Make These Sex Resolutions In The New Year For A Better Sex Life In 2023
Your sex life matters!
2023 is almost here knocking on your door and it’s time to let it in. With another new year, we all have some hopes, expectations and new year resolutions. One area we often neglect while we plan for the new year is our sex life, because what is there to plan, right? Wrong! For a more fulfilling and satisfying sex life, we must bring some changes to our usual routine and attitude towards sex. After all, we all deserve pleasure, don’t we?
Most of us change as a person with each passing year in most aspects, except our outlook towards sex. Well, the problem usually lies in the monotonous routines that we have. So, if you want to keep it interesting you need to make some sex resolutions or “Sexolutions” for a better sex life in 2023. Are you wondering what to add to your list? Well, let us help you out with some ideas.
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Sex Resolutions To Make For A Sexier 2023
1. Experimenting Is A Must
One complaint that men usually have is that women are not ‘adventurous enough’. However, the reality is women need more variety erotically than men do. So one thing which can do wonders to your sex life is when both of you try something new. This can spice up your sex life and maybe even surprise you with a new moan zone. It is important to remember that our choices and desires keep on changing, so you also need to keep on updating your sex game.
2. Learn To Initiate Sex
It’s one of the most significant changes you can make. If your partner is always the one who suggests sex, and you never initiate it because of various reasons. Then 2023 is the year you switch sides. If you start initiating it by nibbling their ear, pulling them in or by saying it directly then this will make your partner know that you find them attractive. The cherry on top is that you will be in the power position. So take the lead!
3. Embrace Your Sensual Side
2023 can be the year where you accept your sensuality with confidence. Buy some sexy lingerie, dim those lights or use some scented candles. Be your most sexy self and seduce your partner so that they lose any control. Or give yourself some toys and vibrators which will help you take control of your satisfaction. Do whatever makes you feel sexy and beautiful!
4. Be Kind To Your Body
There are 8 billion people on Earth and it will be absurd for all of them to have the same body type. So don’t be critical of your body if it doesn’t conform to a societal stereotype or your perception of what’s attractive. The best present you can give yourself is to accept the body you were born into. Embrace all your imperfections and learn to enjoy all your quirks. After all, these unique aspects make you, you.
5. Make A Sex Bucket List
Make some fun and naughty goals for yourself. You can tick these goals solo or with a partner. Make your sex bucket list a mix of experiences at various locations, different positions and techniques. You can use some sexy books, movies and shows for inspiration. Make a list of things you have always wanted to try and make this year an adventurous and exciting one.
6. Please Talk About Sex
If you feel awkward or shy talking about sex or anything related to it then you need to change things up a bit. Talking about sex with your partner is very important to get to know each other better and get past all the weirdness you feel. If you talk about what you like and don’t like this will make your next session more satisfying. Understanding the needs of your partner and how they felt will only help your sex life and also increase your comfort level and intimacy.
7. Be Playful Together
You don’t need to take sex so seriously. A sex session that’s lusty initially then lapses into silliness, then resumes, is a healthy sex session. You must enjoy each other’s company without pretending. Feel free to laugh or even talk while doing the deed. The playfulness adds another fun element to the already exciting activity and also helps you relax and takes the pressure off.
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These are just some of the sex resolutions which you can make for 2023. These will help you update your sex game and also will bring you closer to your partner. These will help you feel more confident in your own skin and about your sexuality. Let 2023 be the year where you embrace yourself and your partner with all the quirks and imperfections.
