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National Boyfriend Day 2022: 6 Signs That Your Boyfriend Might Be Creating An Unequal Relationship!

October 03, 2022 | by Mehak Walia
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Celebrated on October 3, National Boyfriend Day is a day meant to be dedicated to your man, to let him know what his presence in your life means to you. But, this day has also showcased the fact that many relationships might be in a massive state of imbalance where all the scales tip toward the boyfriends. It’s clear that such relationships are based on power and control instead of equality and respect and this totally needs to be rectified.

The most awful part is the fact that the girlfriends are mostly, way too invested to be able to catch the signs. Think about it. Do you always have to do the work? Are you expected to earn your partner’s affection? Are you always trying to make it up to your boyfriend even if you haven’t done anything wrong? It’s time to take back control and check your relationship because if you leave such unequal relationships unchecked, it can lead to hurt, resentment, abuse, toxicity and other painful tactics with time.

Are you wondering if your boyfriend might be trying to control the dynamic, thereby, creating an unequal relationship? Here are some signs that you should be on the lookout for.

6 Signs You Might Be In An Unequal Relationship

1. They Take All The Major Decisions

Does your boyfriend try to take all the decisions by himself? Look back and think, from where to go and what to eat to what you’re supposed to call them, has everything been their decision? This is a major red flag because you obviously, can’t seem to gain any sense of respect or control in your relationship.

2. They Refuse To Compromise

A lot of times, compromise can be very essential for the sake of your relationship. This could be something tiny like what to eat or even something massive like how to define the relationship. Does your boyfriend refuse to be the one that comprises and therefore, make you sacrifice a lot? This is a definite red flag.

3. You Always Have To Apologise

Does your boyfriend remain in a constant state of judgement and jealousy? Are they always blaming you for stuff that you haven’t done? Do you always have to end up being in a spot where you have to be apologetic just to save your relationship? It’s time to stop doing this as this is a major red flag.

4. They Love To Have The Last Word

In a healthy and equal relationship, each partner can express themselves freely without feeling dominated by the other. Do you feel like you cannot seem to disagree with your boyfriend without facing severe criticism or being met with an angry response? It might be time to walk away from the relationship.

5. You Have To Constantly Earn Their Affection And Attention

Are you the one who has to pay for all of your shared expenses? Do they expect you to pick up the tab for their financial obligations? Do you always have to be the one who checks up on him? This means that you’re literally having to earn their love and attention and it sure as hell, isn’t worth it. Think about it.

6. The Level Of Communication Is Awful

Do you feel like your boyfriend doesn’t listen, doesn’t care, or just doesn’t really understand what you mean when you do talk? Does every conversation with them leave you feeling unsatisfied and unfulfilled? This is a very bad sign and to be honest, you obviously deserve more.

Also Read: Why Is It Easy To Ignore Red Flags In Love And Relationships Rather Than Address Them?

So, it’s time to check your relationship and understand where you stand. Remember, being in an unequal relationship where your boyfriend just isn’t ready to make efforts to correct the imbalance, is a waste. You deserve better so, it’s time to get the hell out of this chaos and find what you deserve.

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