Single Parents, These 4 Tips Will Help You Navigate Dating Again Post Divorce!
These tips will make dating stress-free!
Getting back to the dating scene after a serious relationship is surely difficult. But starting to date again post-divorce comes with a whole lot of pressure. There is the societal pressure of “What will people think” because society already judges you for being a divorcee, and if you start dating again, gossip is sure to fly! But if you are a single parent, the pressure increases tenfold because naturally, you think about your child first and whether they will be okay with you seeking a new partner.
Being a single parent does not mean you have to sacrifice your happiness for the sake of your child. Your wanting to see a partner depends less on your child, and more on you. Amid these thoughts, if you are wondering whether there are people out there who want to date someone who is a single parent, let me tell you something. A report by Bumble India mentions that 69 per cent of Indians would not mind dating a person who is a single parent. Let me furthermore ease your worry about getting back into the dating game as a single parent by sharing four tips that will smoothen this journey!
1. Make sure your child is in the mental space of accepting someone new
If your child is old enough to understand dating, have an open conversation with them. Be transparent about your future plans of having a partner so that your child does not feel that you are springing information on them last minute!
2. See if the prospective partner is open to being associated with your kids
It is important to see if your prospective partner behaves well towards your kids. Moreover, if you are thinking of taking a serious step together, make sure your prospective partner and your kids are comfortable around each and not awkward.
3. Don’t neglect your happiness for the sake of your child’s
As parents, your automated response is to think about your children first. But in the process of doing that, don’t ignore your happiness. You deserve a second chance at love and you need to give it a shot.
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4. Trust your gut. It never lies.
Having raised a child, you know your gut never lies. So, trust it when it comes to the dating scene. Take baby steps and don’t rush into finding a partner. Ruchika Kanwal, Bumble’s Mental Health Expert, says it is important to develop a positive attitude toward wanting to date again after a divorce. She added that you need to ‘reflect’ on your past before you look for a new partner.
So, instead of worrying about society, prioritise your happiness, and keep your children with you every step of the way!
