Sex is an essential part of all of our lives. And what is sex without some foreplay? When it comes to men, foreplay apart from exploring their erogenous zones, it all boils down to how well can you turn him on with a hand job or a blow job. While blow jobs can be fun, hand jobs are often the kind of jobs that we don’t enjoy as much! I’m sure many women will say otherwise. Having a wrist that hurts after a blow job is better than drowning in your own spit as you choke on d*ck and end up with an aching jaw! But to all the girls who enjoy giving hand jobs – how do you do it?
To me, not only do hand jobs suck but they’re also rather uncomfortable! And I’m sure many women will agree with me! Let’s take a look at all the reasons why I find hand jobs uncomfortable, boring AF and an absolute waste of time!
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The biggest reason why I find hand jobs uncomfortable is the fact that when you have to give a hand job, your hand is at a weird angle and you’re bound to end with an aching arm and wrist by the end of it thanks to the position! It’s one thing to have aching inner thighs but arms and wrists? Who needs that!
And all that HARD work is a total waste of time because let’s be honest, we know not only can he do a better job at giving himself a hand job but he’d be happier if you gave him a blow job instead!
Plus it’s boring AF because what are you supposed to do with your other hand? And where are you supposed to look? You hold his d*ck in your hand and have no clue where to look and how to make it seem sexy or sensual! You’re literally jerking him off and what’s sexy about that? Helping him masturbate is hardly a turn-on for the woman either.
Another reason why hand jobs are uncomfortable is because how are you supposed to lubricate? Use a lube? Spit on his d*ck? How sexy is that!! And if you don’t you’ll probably rip his d*ck off with your dry hands and that’s going be a total turn-on, hai na?
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Since I find hand jobs truly uncomfortable and I decided to explore it further to understand what other women think about it and from the looks of it, the verdict is 50-50! A look at Reddit threads made me realise that while many women prefer hand jobs over blow jobs, there are enough of those who find hand jobs uncomfortable. NGL but no one really tells you how to make them comfortable and good and how to hold his tool right.
IMHO, it’s best to work HARD in the right job and that is a blow job. He can totally give himself a hand job but its not like he can give himself a blow job. And while I do believe that blow jobs are more convenient than hand jobs, allow me to remind you of something important. Let men earn blow jobs! Don’t give them away for free to all the casual hookups! Plus oral sex can lead to STDs and you don’t want to put your mouth on a d*ck when you don’t even know all the places it has been!