Bigg Boss 17 has been a relationship lesson for everyone who watches it or knows about it from a distance. Well, not because there are a lot of good things happening on the show but by learning all the things that you should NOT do in a relationship. In a recent episode, Ankita Lokhande revealed how her husband Vicky Jain ghosted her for a year after a big fight between them. The Pavitra Rishta actress also added that Vicky forgave her after that too! Well, we don’t think disappearing is a very good idea tho, though for most of us, it may also be a red flag. And there are so many other options that a person can go for instead of ghosting each other after a fight. Here’s a list that can help if you too have thoughts of disappearing after a fight!
Take Some Time Off To Think
That doesn’t mean a year! And entirely cutting off from the partner is also not something one should do. Maybe take a day or two to think about what happened, and what led to such a big fight between you and your partner. Give some serious thought to it, basically!
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Go, Sit And Talk!
Having a conversation is what adults too. Sorting out differences, trying to understand each other’s mental space, accepting mistakes or pointing out where your partner went wrong in a calm way are a few ways to go about it!
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Apologise If It’s Your Mistake!
After some thinking. if you realise that you were at fault too, then there’s no shame in apologising to your partner. It only builds your relationship and makes the bond stronger. Maybe, by that time your partner will also realise where he/she went wrong!
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If It’s Not Your Fault, Listen To Your Partner’s Side!
Cool down, and hear your partner out. Listen to their side of the story and why they reacted the way they did. Give patience to your relationship if you really want that person!
Ignore It If Possible!
If the fight is not over any major differences between you and your partner and is something that can be easily dealt with, just try not to make a big deal out of it. And explain the same to your partner too! They will understand!
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