Ladies, gather around because we need to talk about something that’s been stirring up a whole lot of unnecessary drama lately: splitting the bill on the first date. Somehow, in this day and age, we’re still caught up in outdated dating norms that dictate who should pay for what. It’s time to break free from those chains and embrace the beauty of splitting bills like the independent, fierce women we are. Here are reasons why there’s absolutely nothing wrong with splitting up the tab on that first date!
1. Equality, Baby
Splitting the bill sets the tone for equality right from the start. It’s not about who earns more or who’s “supposed” to pay; it’s about two individuals coming together as equals. Also, going out on a date is the common motive from both parties, money is the last of things that make or break your first date with the person.
2. Financial Independence
We’re not living in the stone age anymore, honey. Women are out here hustling just as hard as men, building careers, and securing the bag. So why should we feel obligated to let a guy foot the entire bill? Let’s cut down a few barriers of shoulds and should’ts, shall we?
3. No Strings Attached
By splitting the bill, you’re making it clear that you’re not here for any outdated expectations or societal pressure. You’re here to enjoy good company and have a great time, with no strings attached. Honestly, if you ask me this is exactly how I look at my first dates. Imagine the date not going so well and your date feeling bad about spending that money. Now we don’t appreciate that at all, do we?
4. Avoid Awkwardness
Let’s face it, waiting for the guy to pick up the bill can sometimes lead to awkward moments. Did he forget his wallet? Is he silently judging your order? Splitting the bill eliminates all those unnecessary worries. Just put it forward, simple and easy. Trust me when I say this, it’ll make you feel much secure and good until the end of the date. It’s actually a great hack to skip the awkwardness of first dates. Whether you end up going out again or you part ways, at least you know there were no awkward interactions!
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5. Testing The Waters
Splitting the bill is a fantastic way to gauge your date’s attitude towards gender roles and equality. If he’s cool with it, great! If not, well, you just dodged a bullet, honey. Moreover, the whole purpose of dating is to determine if there’s a genuine connection with someone. In this regard, what better way to gauge compatibility than through the test of splitting the bill?
6. It’s 2024, Not 1924
Seriously, why are we still clinging to these antiquated dating norms? We’ve come a long way, baby, and it’s time to leave those old-fashioned expectations behind. Sometimes, I’ve had guys give me a nod of approval for suggesting we split the bill, leaving me feeling like, “Aayein?” Why so big on gender norms, bhai? NGL, I have had men suggesting that they take the whole bill, but once you do step into the splitting-the-bill game it’s hard to let anyone talk you out of it.
7. Setting Standards
By confidently suggesting to split the bill, you’re setting a standard for yourself and future dates. For someone who values independence and equality, I believe that you can only be with someone who has the same ideas about these things. Bending your values according to the person you have just met, even out of ettique can just make it seem a strategic move to some. Why make it more complicated than it already is, am I right?
8. No Room For Obligation
Accepting a free meal shouldn’t come with any strings attached. By splitting the bill, you’re removing any sense of obligation or indebtedness. There have been times when I’ve split or even covered the entire bill, and some folks have mistaken it for me trying to assert dominance. But let’s set the record straight: it’s not about power plays for me. It’s about dodging that awkward obligation that comes with accepting a free meal.
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9. Taking Control
Who says the guy has to be the one to initiate everything? By suggesting to split the bill, you’re taking control of the situation and showing that you’re not afraid to speak up for what you believe in. Healthy control over things isn’t always so bad, especially in relationships.
10. It’s Just Dinner, Folks
At the end of the day, it’s just dinner. Whether you split the bill or not, what truly matters is the connection you make and the memories you create together. So let’s not get bogged down by who pays for what and just enjoy the moment. And there’s always another chance for them to showcase their chivalry, in much better ways. Why stick to just paying the bills?
So there you have it, ladies. Here are some solid reasons why there’s absolutely nothing wrong with splitting the bill on the first date. So go out there, have a blast, and remember: it’s about having fun and enjoying the moment. Don’t let the bill drama ruin good times!