Margot Robbie and Ryan Gosling starrer Barbie is a satire on performative feminism, systematic patriarchy and misogyny. Greta Gerwig made sure to make her point while making all of us cracking up. But that’s not all that caught our attention. Margot Robbie’s Barbie is a strong woman as she grows and learns about feminism and how patriarchy works. More importantly, she’s a strong woman who knows how to set boundaries for herself with men for healthy relationships. Evidence in questions – Ken. Want to learn how to set healthy boundaries with men like Barbie did with Ken? Here are some tips.
1. Be Clear About Your Feelings
Barbie does not shy away from expressing her feelings no matter what. She’s very clear and assertive when she tells Ken that she’s not interested in him and refuses to let him stay over at night. Be like her, don’t shy away from drawing your boundaries and letting someone know that you’re not interested in them.
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2. Learn To Say No And Be Unapologetic About It
Margot Robbie does not flinch or mince her words when she says no to Ken and stops him from kissing her. More importantly, she does not apologise for saying no or setting boundaries.
3. Call Out Problematic Behaviour
When Ken learns about patriarchy and brings it to Barbieland, Barbie isn’t afraid to call out his problematic behaviour, be it taking over her dreamhouse or objectifying and manipulating women. Just like Margot Robbie, speak up for yourself and womankind in general, and call out the wrongs instead of waiting for someone to do it.
4. Hold Your Ground No Matter What
Be assertive and hold your ground when you know that you’re not wrong. Barbie may have had a moment when she felt dejected and lost but she refused to back down and made sure to right the wrong when the Kens brainwashed Barbies. She did not let Ken gaslight or manipulate her as he did to the other Barbies.
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5. Set Boundaries For Your Self-Growth
Boundaries are not just for others but also for our own selves. They are meant to protect us from unhealthy habits, behaviours and problems. Take a page out of Barbie’s book who took the tough path and didn’t jump into a relationship with Ken and instead chose to work on herself and figure out her life instead. Don’t always let your heart lead you.
Margot Robbie’s Barbie teaches us how to be ourselves, unapologetic, confident and glam!