To Spit Or Swallow? All You Need To Know About This Blowjob Dilemma
To swallow or to spit, this ultimate question is still a dilemma for many people. To clear up the context, we are not talking about the truth pill here but the essence of your man. Swallowing is the practice of gulping down the ejaculation of your partner when they climax after you go down on them, i.e. give them a blowjob. If we consider porn, swallowing is widely common in it. It’s as if every girl is thirsty for the cum. Well to be fair, it won’t be a very sexy porn video where the actress is bent over a sink after a blowjob. This brought swallowing into the limelight and made men create a buzz around the topic.
Leave it to men, to take a step further and advertise swallowing as a good protein source for women (yes, we see you). They literally suggested that if you have less protein in your body, the solution was simple, swallow away! Sadly this isn’t true, you can’t just stock up on protein that way unless you are willing to gulp down gallons of it which is well. . . a lot of ‘hard’ work.
Also, people who swallow willingly are judged for being so open with their sexuality, desires and needs. Meanwhile, the people who refuse to try are considered proper prudes. There is so much stigma associated with swallowing that it makes me wonder, why do people swallow at all?
So, Why Do People Swallow?
Protein source or not, some people choose to swallow it. Sometimes it’s for the pleasure of the man because it’s a big turn-on for the man to be appreciated and accepted completely and wholly. Sometimes it is out of kindness and a way of doing the same as he does when they go down. Sometimes people swallow it just out of convenience too, as it will be less messy and easier than spitting and ruining the mood.
However, some people genuinely enjoy swallowing as well. For some, it feels like a way to be more intimate and connected with the person. Some think it is a power move, to have that kind of control over your man and it shows that he is completely yours. For some, it is a turn-on to watch their lovers watch them swallowing, to keep a piece of them in their body. And some swallow it because they like the taste of it.
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If we consider it from a man’s perspective, some of them certainly might enjoy the sight of you swallowing and some even encourage you to try it. It does add a little bit to the experience. But it’s more of a kink. When you go down a person, the intimacy level is already very high and it is higher if you can be your true self. So, I really don’t understand the additional hype.
If you swallow or spit, it’s your own choice and either way, having the person cum in your mouth or anywhere on your body is already very sexy. When you are together, the majority of pleasure is derived from proximity and physical touch. The feeling of vulnerability and the sensation of each other’s body adds to the experience. Swallowing is just a minute plus point in the sea of other emotions, you know?
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If you really want to give it a whirl. swallowing can, in fact, be a rather unique experience. But, like any other sexual experiment, it’s better to be safe and follow some precautions while giving it a go. But, be sure about the decision to swallow beforehand, this will mentally prepare you for what is coming (pun intended).
Remember, after all, whenever you’re experimenting with any kinks or fetishes, only focus on the stuff that makes you feel comfortable and the moment you feel like it might be for you, it’s okay to call it off. Your comfort should be the supreme priority, okay? So, don’t worry and experiment away.
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