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How To Play And Experiment With Nipple Clamps And Clips?

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Playful touches and heavy eye contact are an age-old trick to get steamy under the sheets. Adding a little spice to your love life is always a good idea. But ladies, keeping things interesting doesn’t have to involve changing your lovemaking spot or running the risk of getting caught by your neighbours while you knock boots on the balcony! If you and your partner are looking at going beyond a little name calling and heavy love taps, a little teasing, sucking and biting can start things off. To take things up a few notches though, might I suggest bringing a set of nipple clamps or clips into your bedroom?

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We know you’ve turned the lights down low whilst reading Fifty Shades Of Grey. But it’s time to take a leaf out of Christian Grey’s Red Room of Pain playbook! Nipple clamps are perfectly safe tools to help you take your first steps into BDSM, or simply switch things up in the bedroom. As the name suggests, nipple clamps and clips are useful for hands-free nipple play. They help pinch or clamp the nipples which restrict the blood flow to the nipple thus, creating a sweet pain-meets-pleasure moment by making the nipples super sensitive to touch. These can add a spicy element to your sexcapades either solo or with someone!

A common misconception associated with these sex-cessories is that only people who are into whips and BDSM will enjoy them. That’s not true, my lovelies, in sex there’s no gatekeeping! You can always add whips and high heels to the mix, but don’t let me tell you what to do. Unless of course, you’re into it. *wink wink*

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If you are a person who enjoys nipple play and likes a little pain on the side, with their pleasure, then nipple clamps are definitely worth a try. To test if you are into nipple play, ask your partner to try biting, sucking, and massaging your nipples, or giving them a pull or pinch yourself. If you like this sensation and are willing to make it a little more intense, then nipple clamps and clips will help you usher things to the next level. 

So, How Do You Begin Experimenting With Nipple Clamps And Clips?

Experimenting with nipple clamps and clips requires you to know about the nitty-gritty beforehand to make the whole experience pleasurable and safe. 

1. Choosing The Right Types Of Clamps

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There are many types of clamps present in the market with different intensities of pressure, varying materials and textures, some have chains, etc. that you can pull on to make the experience more fun. You see, choosing the clamp will depend primarily on how much pain you enjoy. Experiment away but just go slowly. 

2. Nipple Prep Matters

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Before you clamp them on, massage the breast tissue including the nipples and then softly begin to squeeze, suck, and worship the nipples to get the skin to be nice and warm. Long-lasting foreplay is essential for good nipple play. Get them nice and razor hard and then, you’re all set!

3. How And When To Put Them On?

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After sufficient arousal, take a breath and clip the clamp onto the nipple before exhaling. Wait for a few breaths, give the nipples time to respond to the clamp, and continue stimulating the area. Let the feeling wash over you as it slowly climbs up your spine and let the fun begin, 

4. The Removal Timing Is Just As Essential

It’s important to keep in mind that a clamp that hurts before your orgasm might be extremely painful after you climax. So make sure you remove them either on the brink of climax or amid an orgasm. You shouldn’t keep on looser clamps for more than 30 minutes, and tighter ones for more than 10 to 15 minutes. 

5. Remember Your Safe Words 

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If you are using these kinky toys with your partner make sure you have discussed your boundaries with them. Using safe words or hand signals is important to make sure your partner knows when to stop or continue especially if you’re involving other kinky toys like binds and gags. 

6. Aftercare Is A Must

When it comes to experimenting with anything kinky, always remember to go slow and maintain an aftercare routine. I would suggest keeping ice easily accessible because it can quickly restore feeling and get rid of the numbness. Furthermore, follow the experience with cream and a light massage to make sure there is no unnecessary scarring. Cuddling is also extremely necessary here.

Remember, all these toys will add hotness to your experience and help you explore new levels of euphoria. It’s important to not use them too frequently or with extreme intensity or else they can cause scarring and chipping. Make sure to read the instruction manual of the particular clamp you get carefully. Most importantly, instantly stop if and when it doesn’t feel good or gets too painful, the experience is supposed to be fun and pleasurable for you. 

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You see, silk bed sheets, wine with chocolates and nipple clamps ought to bring your partner to their knees for you (respectfully of course). Indulge in steamy make-out sessions with light tugs at the clamps will leave soft moans caressing your ear lobes. After all, when it comes to experimenting with anything kinky, please don’t limit yourself due to a lack of knowledge and fear. After all, your body is a wonderful forest full of sensations, don’t be afraid to explore them. Who knows, you might actually end up developing a new kink that you really enjoy. 

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