Women Share 8 Tips To Handle Being Ghosted, We Say Let The Dead Stay In The Grave!

Ladies, dating is hard and it’s especially hard when you are just in the initial stages of conversation asking each other’s favourite colours and food joints. Sometimes you just never know when one might ghost you. Getting ghosted by someone you saw a genuinely liked can feel like a punch in your gut. It’ll leave you wondering where exactly you went wrong. But moving on is the right thing to do, am I right? So here are a few tips women on Reddit have for you to handle being ghosted like a pro.

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1. The Bright Side

So a wise woman on Reddit just gave the best way to deal with this, every time you think about them, send them a telepathic thank you for making room for someone who actually genuinely likes you.

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2. Keep Busy

Use this time to work on yourself! Distract yourself, and keep yourself busy with activities and hobbies you love. Living your best life is definitely the best way to get over someone ghosting you.

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3. Delete And Block

Ladies, sometimes cutting ties with people fully is the only way to move forward. If they have given you no explanation and it is hurting you, just delete their number, or unfollow them. Out of Sight, out of mind baby!

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4. Acceptance And Closure

Accept the fact that their actions are a reflection of them, it does not have anything to do with you! You might not always get closure from each person in your life. Sometimes you need to embrace closure on your own terms.

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5. Focus On Self-Care

Getting ghosted can make you question yourself, especially if you saw it going ahead with the person in question. But after it happens, the most important thing is to treat yourself with kindness and self-care. Spend time with your friends, and do things that make you happy!

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Also Read: 5 Small Gestures To Express Love For Your Partner In A Grand Way!

6. Learn And Grow

Failed relationships and talking stages are the best way to learn and grow as a person! It’s always better to know what you truly want and deserve in a partner while also understanding where you might have gone wrong. Use it as a learning opportunity!

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7. Keep Moving Forward

Women advised to remind yourself that you were just fine before them and you shall be more than fine after them as well. Try to keep your focus on the present and the amount of adventures you could experience ahead!

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Remember that getting ghosted might have more to do with the person and their problems rather than you. So before you blame yourself for anything, give yourself some time to forgive them and move on without expecting anything.

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