Disclaimer: It’s going to be very relatable and you’ll feel like being called out. And, if so, you are in the right place to ultimately move on from that so-called “relationship.” Situationships have become so normalised but still, there are a large number of people who don’t know what the heck is it! So, let us help you out. Situationship is like you’re in a relationship, but not really. That’s the best way to put it. Honestly, It’s all fuzzy and unclear, like you’re not sure if you’re just friends or something more. It’s like being in a situation, where you’re not moving forward but not stepping back either. But, sometimes it gets too much and can disturb your sanity. So, here are 6 signs your situationship isn’t going anywhere and you need to get out of it!
6 Signs You Should Get Out Of Your Situationship
1. Unclear Labels
Well, the point of situationships which is a boon and bane for some is – no labels. However, it’s mostly a grey area. Not having a clear label can make things confusing. Questions like, Are you just pals? Or is there something more? arise. Without a label, it’s hard to set boundaries and see where things are going. So, if you two are still not sure what to call each other, that’s a sign things might be on hold and it’s better to get out of it.
2. The Infamous “Commitment Issue”
Making commitments to each other can be a task. Since, in situationships, you are not expected to hold onto one person and can explore. But, after a certain point, the thought regarding your future arises. So, if future plans remain vague or you both struggle to commit to each other, there’s no point in continuing with the relationship. It’s better to let go and focus on yourself!
3. Communication? What’s That In A Situationship?
In a situationship, communicating and expressing your feelings are never considered or thought about. However, there are times when it’s easier to talk to them but if talking about feelings and expectations feels like tiptoeing around a landmine, it might mean you’re not on the same page. Which means, there is no purpose in moving forward with the relationship. Bid a goodbye to them!
4. Emotions Rollercoaster, More Like Their Mood Swings
Well, as a woman you’ll feel their mood swings more than you experience while PmSing. One moment, you’ll feel closer to them and instantly imagine your future. However, at another moment they’ll become distant and make you feel like you don’t exist. It can be exhausting and is a major red sign that the relationship isn’t progressing.
5. There’s No This, No That In A Situationship
There are moments when you’ll feel like you’re stuck in the same and exhausting routine. Furthermore, there’s no growth or change in a relationship. It’s like you are living in a loop, where nothing is progressing. You are neither committing nor letting them go. So, don’t be stuck in the same old routine and let them go. It’ll be a tough process but it’ll be good for your mental stability.
6. The Famous “What Are We?” Talk
Well, the major red flag in a situationship is avoiding the big conversation about where things are heading. If your “labelled” partner doesn’t want to talk about it and always runs away, it’s better to hit the brake! Recognizing these 6 signs can help you understand where your situationship stands and take a call accordingly.
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