Ankita Lokhande Reveals Vicky Jain Blocks Her After Fights, 5 Reasons Why It Isn’t A Great Idea
Please stop doing this!
Finding love and maintaining a relationship is probably tougher than building a career in the world today. In a generation where love is served on the go, like food on your favourite apps, it’s often hard to care enough and build a special bond with someone. Post a handsome amount of butterflies, relationships become a nightmare when partners refuse to understand their styles of attachments, giving rise to arguments. Well, we all are different and operate on different frequencies. While some overthink through their day, some don’t bother to even think. And when two poles apart personalities meet at a junction, things tend to mess up.
An example of trouble in the paradise is visible through a variety of partnerships in this season of Bigg Boss. From the love triangle between Isha Malviya, Samarth Jurel and Abhishek Kumar to married couple Ankita Lokhande and Vicky Jain, clashes remain a constant between all of them. Just recently, actress Ankita, revealed on the show, how Vicky often blocks her number on his phone, after most fights. And that’s how we smelt the mess. This season, the true colours of this celebrity couple’s relationship have dropped a surprise package on fans, who thought things were sunshine bright. But with each passing episode, we discover something new. Speaking about their attachment style, and Ankita’s revelation of being blocked by her partner after fights, we think the problem is deeper than you know.
Many partners with different attachment styles, find it upsetting when abandoned by their partners. And it’s during such times when they lose the hope of love. Studies often describe this situation as a commonly occurring reaction imposed by one partner to the other. Most prominently seen in relationships, where one of the two is an anxious attacher and the other is an avoidant. But, is the idea of blocking your partner the best solution you could use? Here’s why we think it is a big no, no!
Triggering Abandonment Issues
As someone who relies heavily on their partner for emotional support, anxious attachers might feel abandoned during times like these. When going through an emotional turmoil, most people rest their heads heavily on their partners, to help them through things. But when their partners block or create a wall, it triggers their deeply rooted issues of abandonment, leading them to think they’re unloved, always left behind, unimportant or unworthy of being heard.
Inflicts Pain
As per scientific studies, when a partner blocks or creates a wall in times of need, the impact of this reaction on the other is as painful as physical pain. Somewhat like an emotional bruise. Well, it might be normal for you, but your reaction can deeply impact and stress your partner.
Unresolved Conflicts
For most avoidant attachers, the idea of creating a boundary stems from the approach that they are resolving the problem by taking their space. But let me burst your bubble, and tell you that it’s not what you think in your head. In a partnership, it is important to love and care for your partner through ways they feel the most comfortable in. And while taking space looks like an easy way out, this wouldn’t help but extend the chances of more conflict, with no closure.
Also Read: Ankita Lokhande’s Mom Praises Vicky Jain, Says “He Stood By Her During Sushant Singh Rajput’s Death”
False Alarm Of Loss
As rightly stated by Ankita Lokhande, who mentioned how Vicky’s habit of blocking her after every fight, alarms her brain of more chances of losing him. This in return, also stops her from raising her concerns, thinking her partner would abandon her again.
Reduces Scope Of Emotional Intimacy
Emotional intimacy is equally important as a physical bond, and many partners fail to understand that. When one person continues to dodge conversations, intimacy grows to become more superficial than deep, which indeed is a threat to your relationship.
So, if you think blocking your partner will solve your fights, please read this and know that it is only doing more harm to your relationship than good.
First Published: January 17, 2024 5:21 PM
