7 Questions To Ask Your Partner Before Getting Into A Relationship To Avoid TJMM-Like Chaos!
It's important to know!
Most people desire a long-term relationship where they can have a jeevan saathi they can spend the rest of their lives with. This whole no-strings-attached and friends-with-benefits situation is not for everyone, you know. But taking the leap from casual dating to a serious relationship is a big one which requires you to be utmost sure of your partner. You two need to be on the same page about the pace and the future of your relationship. And to get clarity on this, you will need to have an uncomfortable conversation with your partner. So, here are some questions to ask your partner before you take your relationship to the next level.
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1. IF you both want to make the relationship a serious one
This is the first question you need to ask to determine if you and your partner see a future with each other or not. This question will set the foundation for the other questions that are about to come.
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2. Do you want children?
This question is important to understand your partner’s take on family and family planning.
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3. What things are there on their bucket list?
You need to know if your partner has a personal or professional checklist that they want to tick off before getting serious with you. This will help you understand their priorities in life.
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4. How do they like to resolve conflicts?
Understanding if your partner is a ‘give-me space’ person or a ‘let’s talk it out’ person is very important as it will help you gauge how your partner will resolve conflicts in the future.
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5. Are they open to live-in before marrying?
Live-in relationships are a trial version that gives you an insight into how your life will look once you get married. It is important to know if your partner is open to this or not.
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6. If they want to live with their parents or separately after marriage?
The answer to this question is a deal-breaker for many. But it is important to understand your partner’s preferences to avoid any shock and chaos later.
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7. What is your love language?
Though not a deal breaker, it is nice to know how your partner like to express love.
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Take notes, peeps, as this list might come in handy.
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