Bizarre! This Mom Said She Watches Porn With Her Sons To Give Them Sex-Ed
Have you ever wondered whether something is actually gross or if it’s just you? Do you ever think, ‘Is it just me who is uncomfortable or is this actually intrusive?’ The thing is I really do acknowledge the fact that every person is different and every new idea is often met with shock. So when I hear of something that feels weird to me, I give it at least some thought to figure. Having said that, I still can’t wrap my head around the fact that an Indonesian singer watches porn with her sons to give them sex-ed. Erm, what even?
49-year-old Wahyu Setyaning Budi, also known as Yuni Shara, revealed in an interview that she watches porn with her sons to educate them. The singer added that she is liberal and doesn’t believe there is any harm in watching porn together. “My children also happen to be open-minded. It’s impossible for our children nowadays to not watch porn, whether it’s ‘anime’ or any other kind that are available nowadays,” she was quoted by The Sun.
If you thought that was weird, she also takes feedback from her sons. She asks them questions on the kind of porn they prefer and they get, obviously, awkward. So she tells them something like, ‘It’s cool, bro.’ There are more normal ways of sex-ed.
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Watching porn (hopefully the ethical kind) is an intimate activity that is meant for sexual arousal. And every person should be able to have the privacy to experience sexual arousal and have intimate thoughts alone. Yes, couples do watch porn together—to heat things up, maybe to learn some moves. It is not a group activity you do with your family.
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As liberal as you are, it is an intimate moment and an infringement of privacy. It doesn’t seem like healthy boundaries have been established here. Also, can we emphasise on how porn is not a good source of sex-ed? Maybe, to give her the benefit of doubt, she points out what not to do. But really, that is also not the way to go about it. She can simply teach them consent and boundaries. Oh, wait, boundaries may not be her field of expertise. Of course, this information has left netizens baffled who are calling her creepy.
I understand it is very healthy to accept that people do watch porn, including your children. But it is one thing to educate them and another thing to join in. As a parent, you can’t really hold their hand in their journey of sexual exploration. You have to take a step back after teaching them about birds and bees and consent. That is actual sex-ed. I would never want to date a guy who watches porn with his mom and bro.
