Aespa Karina Firmly Shuts Down Fan Begging Her To Date Them. We Love It!
The K-pop idol gave a smart and strong reply that surprised many people.
K-pop idols share a close and friendly connection with their fans. They talk often and make fans feel special. But sometimes fans go too far and ask for more. This recently happened with Aespa’s Karina. A fan begged her to date them in a very intense way. However, she did not ignore it and gave a smart and strong reply that surprised many people. Read on to know all about it.
Fan Asks Aespa Karina To Be Their Girlfriend. Here’s How She Responded!
Karina was interacting with her fans when one user shared a long message full of repeated requests. The fan kept saying things like wanting to date her, asking why it could not happen, and pleading many times. It was clear the fan felt a very deep personal attachment that crossed normal limits.
karina shutting down parasocialism… omg i dreamed of this https://t.co/wzZR1VAxoH
— vivi (@rubyrinas) January 13, 2026
Instead of staying quiet or getting upset, the K-pop idol shared a picture of the message on her own page. Then she wrote a short answer. She said she loved the fan too but added that they should calm down a little. Her reply was kind, funny, and straightforward at the same time. It showed she cared about the fan but also needed to set a boundary.
Her response made rounds on the internet, as many people loved how she handled it. They praised her for being polite while making her point. Some called it a gentle reminder for fans to stay in reality. Others liked the humour behind her response. It felt like she was saying, “I appreciate you, but let’s keep things healthy.” Well, Karina was friendly without encouraging wrong ideas.
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It also brought back conversation on how K-pop idols must balance being close to fans and protecting their own space. Karina’s reply became an example of doing it well.
What are your thoughts on it?
First Published: January 15, 2026 5:32 PM
