Ranbir Kapoor and Alia Bhatt, one of Bollywood’s most talked-about couples, have often been the subject of public fascination. However, their relationship, like any other, has had its share of less-than-ideal moments. From Ranbir’s comments on Alia’s makeup choices to his opinions on her personality traits, these instances paint a picture of a relationship that sometimes appears far from the fairy-tale romance often depicted in the media.
The Lipstick Dictator
First up, let’s talk about the lipstick drama. During an interaction with Vogue India, Alia Bhatt spilt some tea on how Ranbir had a peculiar request every time they went on a date. She’d carefully apply her nude-hued lipstick, only to have Ranbir ask her to wipe it off because he preferred her natural lip colour. Yes, you heard that right. Ranbir, even before tying the knot, had opinions about how Alia should look. While some might see this as a preference, it borders on controlling when you start dictating your partner’s makeup choices.
The Loud Label
Then there’s the time when Ranbir casually labelled Alia as a ‘loud personality’ in an interview. Discussing his newborn daughter Raha, he expressed hopes that she wouldn’t inherit Alia’s boisterous nature, implying they’d have to manage Alia if their daughter turned out to be like her. Ouch. Imagine being characterized as someone who needs to be ‘handled’—it’s not exactly flattering. This comment not only undermines Alia’s vibrant personality but also hints at Ranbir’s discomfort with it.
Volume Control
Alia has also opened up about how Ranbir dislikes it when she raises her voice in anger, emphasizing that he prefers a calm tone at all times. This goes beyond a simple preference for calm; it suggests that Alia must constantly regulate her emotions to fit Ranbir’s comfort zone. While promoting kindness and calmness is great, stifling one’s natural reactions to avoid upsetting a partner can be quite oppressive.
The Effort Imbalance
Ranbir has admitted that Alia has made more changes for him than he has for her. He acknowledges that she’s put in considerable effort to adjust her behaviour, such as speaking in a lower tone to avoid rattling him, a sensitivity stemming from his childhood experiences. Meanwhile, Ranbir’s idea of making an effort includes baking a cake for her birthday. Sweet, but hardly a match for the behavioural overhaul Alia seems to have undergone.
The Insensitive Remark
For those who don’t know, a particularly cringe-worthy moment occurred during a YouTube live session. Director Ayan Mukerji asked Ranbir and Alia why they weren’t promoting their film everywhere. Alia began to explain that their current focus was on something else, but Ranbir interrupted her. He pointed at her baby bump and made a joke, saying, “Well, I can say somebody has phailod.” This comment, making light of Alia’s pregnancy, was not only insensitive but also publicly embarrassing for Alia. It’s a clear example of how Ranbir’s attempts at humour can sometimes miss the mark and come off as disrespectful.
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These anecdotes paint a picture of a relationship that’s far from the fairy-tale romance often portrayed in the media. Ranbir Kapoor, with all his charm, has moments that make you wonder if he’s really the hero of any girl’s dream. From controlling makeup choices to labelling personality traits, his actions reflect a need for control and discomfort with Alia’s natural self. In any partnership, mutual respect and acceptance are crucial, and it appears there’s some imbalance in the Kapoor-Bhatt dynamic. While Alia’s efforts to accommodate Ranbir are commendable, one can only hope that Ranbir steps up and starts appreciating his partner for who she truly is, her loud personality and all.