Have you ever wondered why so many women feel guilty about saying no or having se*ual desires? It’s like the word doesn’t exist in their dictionary. Saying no can sometimes feel like a difficult task for women, which often leads to feelings of guilt and self-doubt. Meanwhile, women having se*ual needs and desires can be termed “bigdi huyi,” Why do women feel so guilty about these basic and small things? Well, this has been generated by societal expectations and inherent gender norms that have decided that women should prioritise others’ needs over their own. So, how about taking a step back and prioritising yourself?
5 Things Women Shouldn’t Feel Guilty About
1. Having Se*ual Desires
It’s the 21st century and yet we are talking about the basic needs of women. Well, just like anyone else, women are entitled to their desires and pleasures without any shame or guilt. It’s not shameful and it will never be. If a man can openly talk about his desires, a woman can too. So, ladies, let go of the guilt and express your se*ual desires with confidence. It’s natural!
2. Rejecting A Guy
While rejecting someone can be difficult it shouldn’t be impossible! Having said that, it’s totally cool for women to reject a guy they’re not into without any feeling of guilt. Your feelings matter and you have every right to choose who you want to be with. Next time, don’t feel guilty about rejecting a guy you don’t like. Say no with your head held high!
3. Saying No During S*x
No matter if you are married or not, consent will always matter. Women have the right to set boundaries and open up about their comfort levels during s*x. They can speak up for what they want and don’t want in any intimate situation without any sense of guilt or fear about breaking up. Because, if your guy breaks up with you over this, girl! You better run! He’s not worth it. Always remember that your boundaries are valid and it’s important to set them.
4. Mothers Feeling Guilty About Having Food Before Her Kids Or Husband
There are so many things mothers feel guilty about. From having food before their kids or husbands to saying no to their silly chores and workload. Because it’s deeply rooted in how women are taught to be selfless and always look out for others with no expectations. If a mother says no to her child, she’ll become the bad cop. Hence, she keeps going without any rest. However, taking care of yourself is just as important as taking care of others. As self-care isn’t selfish, it’s a way to make sure that you have the energy to be there for those you love. Enjoy the meal, you deserve it!
5. For Being Headstrong And Smart
Furthermore, women should also never feel guilty about being headstrong or smarter than most people on earth. Well, how can you deal with stupid men if you are not smart? Being strong-willed and determined is a powerful trait that drives women forward in life and we love it! Moreover, the world needs more women who stand tall and leave their mark! Ladies, this Independence Day, free yourself from the idea of just being “sundar aur susheel.” Let’s take a seat back, be selfish and prioritise yourselves!
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