As we approach the 78th Independence Day, we go back and see how much we have grown as a country. While we have made a lot of progress in women’s safety and rights, there is still a long way to go. While we do talk about a lot of broader issues, there are other issues which we have declared casual but affect the minds of women around the country on a day-to-day basis. Whenever I step out of the house, there are a thousand thoughts that run through my brain and no it’s not if I have carried my lipstick or not (sexist people please go away). But rather my safety. So here are 5 things we as women want freedom from when we step out of the house!
1. Fear Of Unwanted Stares
The feeling of being scrutinized or objectified is intrusive and unsettling. Whenever I walk out of my home, I have to wear that extra layer of clothing to hide my actual clothes which can invite stares. For the longest time, I did that until I couldn’t handle the stares and I stopped getting ready. This was sad. Stares can do just as much harm as anything else.
2. Worrying About Safety
Many women are constantly on guard due to concerns about their safety in public. They desire the freedom to navigate their surroundings without having to be vigilant about potential threats. Me going out at 6 PM or even midnight should never be a big deal. This is a free world but can a woman step outside without worrying for her safety?
3. Stressing About Harassment
Verbal comments, catcalling, or unwanted advances while walking in public spaces can be distressing. Women seek freedom from this type of harassment to feel safe and respected in their surroundings. This can be a trauma for many.
4. Why Do Gender Stereotypes Even Exist?
Women want to move through public spaces without being subjected to stereotypes or assumptions based on their gender. They aspire to be seen and treated as individuals rather than as representatives of a gender norm. If I want to buy something as simple as furniture, I don’t need a man to come with me to seem important.
5. What If I’m S*xually Assaulted?
The risk of s*xual violence, whether in public or private settings, remains a significant concern. Women aspire to be free from any threat or act of sexual assault.