Amrita Rao And RJ Anmol On Their 4-Year-Long Pregnancy Struggles, Reveal They Lost A Baby During Surrogacy

Amrita Rao And RJ Anmol On Their 4-Year-Long Pregnancy Struggles, Reveal They Lost A Baby During Surrogacy

A lot of celebrities have been sharing their khush khabri with their fans but along with that, they’ve also ensured that people know that the struggles a couple (especially a woman) faces in their pregnancy journey are not an easy one. One of the celeb couples who also shared their journey is none other than Amrita Rao and RJ Anmol. The duo took to their YouTube channel to share their pregnancy struggles and in the process revealed how they lost a baby while they were going through surrogacy. 

 

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On April 21, Amrita Rao and RJ Anmol took to their YouTube channel, Couple Of Things, and revealed that they started trying to conceive in 2016 and continued to do so for four years. They also opened up about trying various methods to conceive – IVF, IUI, surrogacy, homoeopathy, and Ayurveda. 

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In the vlog, Amrita Rao spoke about her visiting the gynaecologist’s clinic multiple times for three years and how at first they were advised to go for IUI but it didn’t work out. She even teased RJ Anmol saying that he was anxious the entire time whereas she was ‘cool’ and ‘chill’. To which he replied, “Har cheeze mei speed up karna wala banda main hoon (I’m the guy who speeds up things).”

 

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Talking about her reaction to surrogacy, Amrita Rao said, “Frankly I was like hann hann mujhe pregnant nahi banna padega na, theek hai (I wouldn’t get pregnant right then it’s okay)… Of course, there are many factors that the baby will get a lot of qualities of that surrogate mother and not what the original mother can give to the baby.”

 

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As for their surrogacy journey, RJ Anmol revealed that it was he who interviewed the mother and then chose to go ahead with her. He also revealed that their doctor had asked them once again if they wanted to go ahead with surrogacy since the actress had the ‘perfect’, healthy body, 

 

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Also Read: Amrita Rao Recalls Battling With Anxiety When She And RJ Anmol Were Trying To Conceive, Says Fear Of Pregnancy Had Settled In

In the video, Amrita Rao and RJ Anmol went on to reveal how the doctor had called them a while later and revealed that the surrogate mother was pregnant and the baby has a “heartbeat”. However, a few days later the doctor delivered the bad news of the mother losing the baby. Needless to say, the news broke their heart. Speaking about that, the actress shared a message, “Aspiring parents, I don’t think you need to be so emotional…This is not in our hands.”

 

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After this, Amrita Rao and RJ Anmol went through IVF multiple times and later to an ayurvedic doctor but nothing yielded a result. During this entire process, the Vivah actress thought, “Baccha karna chahiye bhi ya nahi (Should we even have a child). Will we be able to bring up babies with the hectic lives we have? Zaroori hai ya nahi (Is it important)?”

 

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And in March 2020, after coming back from Thailand, Amrita Rao and RJ Anmol became pregnant for the first time and in November 2020 they welcomed their son, Veer. 

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