In today’s digital era, navigating the online world comes with its fair share of challenges, especially for content creators who often find themselves at the receiving end of cyberbullying and trolling. Ankush Bahuguna, a prominent content creator known for his makeup tutorials, recently shed light on his experience dealing with trolls who target his sexuality and gender identity. In an exclusive interview with Hauterrfly, Ankush shared his insights on how he copes with the negativity that comes his way.
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Acknowledging the toll that online hate can take on one’s mental health, Ankush candidly admitted that negative comments do affect him, particularly on days when he’s feeling vulnerable. “It does take a toll on you, especially when, for example, I feel like on good days, when, when my day is going good, et cetera, I don’t really, you know, see the thing is that hate as an emotion will always affect you more than love. It is human nature, and because we all want to be liked, and especially as content creators, our work depends on being liked by people, right?” However, over time, he has developed a resilience to such negativity, realizing that trolls often project their insecurities onto others.
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Ankush emphasized the importance of detachment from hurtful comments, recognizing that they stem from societal constructs of masculinity and societal norms. He said that once you realize where they are coming from, you start ignoring it. Like how he knows men who say that girls don’t wear make up, they don’t have a valid reason for saying that. They’re just, uncomfortable with their definition of masculinity. He also mentioned how he sometimes engages with trolls to hold them accountable for their actions, and also acknowledges the need to prioritize his mental well-being and disengage when necessary. Furthermore, he expressed concern for younger content creators who may be more susceptible to the harmful effects of online hate, highlighting the need for a supportive network both online and offline.
Reflecting on the broader implications of online trolling, Ankush underscored the responsibility of society in fostering a safer digital environment, especially for impressionable teenagers who are increasingly exposed to online negativity. Despite the challenges, Ankush remains resilient, drawing strength from his supportive circle and advocating for a more compassionate online community.